How to be a Leader - deal with drama triangles, the anxiety of others and even Org's that sabotage themselves

I love these book summaries that are done in carton form. This ones all about being a true leader, being clear about yourself and not being drawn into others anxiety and issues - in the wrong way. I find it useful. It also says to me that we need to know ourselves well to be the Differentiated Leadership that Friedman suggests. Personal branding of ourselves must be one way to be clear and there is a direct ROI for those around us and our business.